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НЕ ТЫ (я, он и т. п.) ПЕРВЫЙ, НЕ ТЫ (я, они т. п. ) ПОСЛЕДНИЙ sent fixed WO

you are (I am etc) not the only person in the world who has ever gone through, or will ever go through, the experience in question (often used to console s.o. or o.s. during a painful or unpleasant experience)

you're (I'm, he's etc ) not the first and you (I, he etc ) won't be the last.

Она согласилась на аборт ради него... Все на свете повторяется и будет повторяться миллион раз, не она первая, не она последняя, обычное женское дело (Рыбаков 2). She agreed to have an abortion for his sake.... Everything in life repeats itself and will go on repeating itself a million times over, she wasn't the first and wouldn't be the last, it was a normal female thing (2a)